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The Message
How Can I Make Daily Prayer More
Meaningful?
By Elder D. Todd Christofferson
Of the Quorum of the Twelve Apostles
A member of the Quorum of the Twelve Apostles answers teens’ questions about prayer.
How can I make daily prayer more meaningful? It’s a good question, and it’s one that applies to all of us. President Hinckley used to say that sometimes when we pray it’s like we’re picking up a phone, ordering groceries, and then we hang up the phone—we put in our order, and we don’t think any more about it than that. But if we take a few minutes just to think about our particular need in a given moment, then prayer becomes more meaningful.
In 2 Nephi 32:9 it says: “Behold, I say unto you
that ye must pray always, and not faint; that ye must not perform any thing
unto the Lord save in the first place ye shall pray unto the Father in the name
of Christ, that he will consecrate thy performance unto thee, that thy
performance may be for the welfare of thy soul.”
Everything we do ought to
be done with an eye toward our Heavenly Father’s blessing and consecrating to
our good all of our activities in a given day. So if we sense our need and
think about it, prayer becomes more meaningful.
Beyond that, it’s important
to remember we shouldn’t just be praying about ourselves, because there are a
lot of people in our sphere of acquaintance who have great needs as well, and
we ought to be remembering them and what kind of help they need from the Lord.
Those kinds of prayers are like when Enos prayed. He prayed about himself first
and then about the Nephites and then the Lamanites—even his enemies were a part
of his concern. That really makes prayer meaningful, to focus on others.
Lastly, when you’re
grateful, when your prayers include a lot of thanks to the Lord for your
blessings, they become much more meaningful.
How do you have the Spirit with you when you pray?
This is crucial. It makes all the difference. Remember the promise we find in Moroni 10:4. It tells us to pray about the Book of Mormon “with a sincere heart, with real intent.” And when we say “sincere heart” and “real intent,” it means that you want to know the Lord’s will and you want to do it, that you’re committed, as you pray, to knowing and doing His will. And that makes prayer very meaningful. If we’re just praying for what we want and we don’t want to know His will, it won’t be the same feeling or have the same meaning.
Years ago when I was
serving as a bishop and was weighed down with all of the problems members of
the ward seemed to have, I began praying about finding solutions and ways to
help. I got some impressions in answer to my pleas for help. Then, it seemed that
the Spirit would guide my prayer so that what I was praying was guided by the
Spirit as well as what came back in answer to my prayers. And I think that’s
the most meaningful kind of prayer we can achieve, where the Spirit guides the
prayer as well as the responses from our Heavenly Father. And I believe that
comes when we really do want to know what the Lord wants and we’re committed to
do whatever that is as we pray.
How often should we pray?
There really is not a rule.
We don’t have a set number. I think as you go through a day, it’s natural to
pray about things as they come along.
Elder David A. Bednar talked in a general conference about prayer and praying always (see “Pray Always,” Ensign, Nov. 2008, 41). He said if our morning prayers are looking out toward the day and what’s coming, we’re previewing the day in our prayer. In our evening prayers, we report to the Lord on what’s happened through the course of the day. We may be thanking Him for blessings received, we may be repenting of a few things that happened that were not right, and then there are all the prayers in between. It just becomes part of a stream of prayers. It’s all part of a pattern, and that goes on day in and day out and week after week and through the years. That’s what it means to have your heart drawn out in prayer to Him.
One other scripture comes to mind, from Alma 37:36–37: “Cry unto God for all thy support; yea, let all thy doings be unto the Lord, and whithersoever thou goest let it be in the Lord; yea, let all thy thoughts be directed unto the Lord; yea, let the affections of thy heart be placed upon the Lord forever.
“Counsel with the Lord in
all thy doings, and he will direct thee for good; yea, when thou liest down at
night lie down unto the Lord, that he may watch over you in your sleep;
and when thou risest in the morning let thy heart be full of thanks unto God;
and if ye do these things, ye shall be lifted up at the last day.”
Sometimes it’s a very, very
simple prayer in a stressful crisis (“Help. Please help me.”). So we’re talking
about our thoughts going to Heavenly Father. Our prayers can be brief through
the course of the day, and it’s just what flows out of us naturally. The closer
we get to Him, the more that happens automatically and we feel that closeness.
It’s like having a friend and walking together through a hallway at school. You
want to turn and talk to each other about what’s going on at the moment. And as
you draw closer to God, that companionship, that friendship, if you will, tends
to develop in the same way.
That being said, don’t
forget that we ought to look for opportunities when we can have long prayers,
when we can have a quiet time and will not be interrupted. We need a time where
we can pray as long as we feel we want to and need to, where Heavenly Father
can teach us and talk to us at length and not just always be responding to a
quick prayer—that’s fine for the moment but not all we should ever do.
What if we don’t get an answer to our prayers when we want it or
need it?
That’s an interesting question. It brings to mind something that Elder Richard G. Scott said in a general conference talk: “What do you do when you have prepared carefully, have prayed fervently, waited a reasonable time for a response, and still do not feel an answer? You may want to express thanks when that occurs, for it is an evidence of His trust. When you are living worthily and your choice is consistent with the Savior’s teachings and you need to act, proceed with trust. As you are sensitive to the promptings of the Spirit, one of two things will certainly occur at the appropriate time: either the stupor of thought will come, indicating an improper choice, or the peace or the burning in the bosom will be felt, confirming that your choice was correct. When you are living righteously and are acting with trust, God will not let you proceed too far without a warning impression if you have made the wrong decision” (“Using the Supernal Gift of Prayer,” Ensign, May 2007, 10).
It’s a valuable experience
sometimes to pray and not immediately receive the answer you feel you need.
It’s all conditioned, of course, on our living the way we should, continuing to
seek His guidance, and being open to those promptings.
We ought to remember we
don’t dictate to God the timing of His answers to us and the content of what
comes in response to our prayers. I learned this when I was about 16. I was in
the pageant at Hill Cumorah. I lived in New Jersey at the time, and they had
some of the youth from New Jersey and New York as participants. I thought I had
a deep belief in the Prophet Joseph Smith and the Book of Mormon and felt that
they were true and that the First Vision was as he described it. I thought,
“This is the perfect chance. I’ll go to the Sacred Grove one night after the
performance and get the final confirmation I need there.”
So I did. I went there late
one night. It was a beautiful summer evening. Nobody else was there—perfectly
reverent and peaceful. And I prayed. I didn’t ask for anything specific. I just
said, “Can I have some confirmation of my belief?” Really I wanted
a testimony of my feeling about the Prophet and the Book of Mormon.
Nothing happened. I prayed
a long time—I’m sure more than an hour. Nothing. I was really disappointed. I
said, “What did I do wrong? Why didn’t the Lord answer me? Wasn’t it the
perfect place, the perfect time? What should I have done that I didn’t do?”
Later, what I was looking
for came, but it was at home in a quiet moment when I was reading the Book of
Mormon. That witness from the Holy Ghost flooded over me, and I knew. I knew I
knew. And when I looked back on the experience, I said, “Why didn’t He answer
my prayer then? Why was it later?” I learned two important lessons from that:
First, you don’t have to be
any place special for the Lord to answer your prayer. You don’t have to make a
pilgrimage to Palmyra or Jerusalem or anything like that. He knows where you
are. He knows your name. He can answer you right here, right now, any moment.
And second, you don’t
dictate to God. You just don’t tell Him what and when. That comes according to
His will and His timing and His wisdom. He loves us; He knows what’s best for
us, and our job is to be open. Our job is always to be willing and ready to
receive. Then He knows what’s best and when to answer us and how to answer us.
So, after all is said and done, we still have to live by faith.
Prayer is one of the things
that will give us the strength and the power to be examples of the believers.
The influence of the Lord, the meaningfulness of our prayers, His guidance in
our life day to day, the strength that comes with all of that really does make
it possible for us to consistently be examples of the believers in everything
we do.
When Enos prayed, He prayed about himself first and then about
the Nephites and then the Lamanites—even his enemies were a part of his
concern. That really makes prayer meaningful, to focus on others.
We need a time where we can pray as long as we feel we want to
and need to.
I think that’s the most meaningful kind of
prayer we can achieve, where the Spirit guides the prayer as well as the
responses from our Heavenly Father.
God loves us; He knows what’s best for us, and our job is always
to be willing and ready to receive.
Monday, August 24, 2020
WELCOME to seminary with Bro. Barlow - How to start right
"Treasure up in your minds continually the words of life" D&C 84:85
"And they said unto me: What meaneth the arod of iron which our father saw, that led to the tree?
"And I said unto them that it was the aword of God; and whoso would hearken unto the word of God, and would bhold fast unto it, they would never perish; neither could the ctemptations and the fiery ddarts of the eadversary overpower them unto blindness, to lead them away to destruction." 1 Nephi 15:23-24
CRITICAL!!! PLEASE DO THIS BEFORE YOUR FIRST DAY OF CLASS
Welcome! Brother Hugh and I are so excited for a new school year and that we get to start seminary together with you studying the Book of Mormon at Centerville Junior High.
As you know, we are going to have to be flexible and adapt. One challenge/opportunity will be learning remotely and relying on technology to stay in touch and provide some of our lessons.
We can't even officially add you to our classes until you have a Church account! Please do this now.
It's going to be exciting and we will work through the challenging bits together, but we need EVERY student to do ONE thing before school starts.
1) Create and/or have access to your personal Church account (not your parent's or your grandma's). That means you have a Church account, you know your login name and password, and you make sure your MRN is linked to your account.
Please follow the steps in this video to get that done. It will take less than 5 minutes and save us hours of class time. Thanks! Bro. Barlow & Bro. Hugh
wELCOME TO SEMINARY!
Wednesday, March 25, 2020
ONLINE SEMINARY THROUGH CANVAS INSTRUCTIONS
Friday, May 17, 2019
Test Prep TEST ON MONDAY
Here are my recommendations for preparing for the test on Monday.
1) You can take the test online at any time this weekend.
2) Go to join.quizizz.com and use these two game codes to review the material before you take the test.
- GAMECODE 093125 (this one will help you master the 10 Doctrinal Mastery passages that are on the test.
- GAMECODE 494520 (this one will ask you to login...just make one up...AND it will prepare you for the type of questions that are on the final)
3) Work through the Study Guide (everything on this study guide will be on the test. Please don't miss the BOLDED/HIGHLIGHTED SECTION below..that section will help you prepare for the WRITING portion of the test)
The study guide is available in 2 ways
- Online/Gospel library. CLICK HERE TO OPEN IT. The hyperlinks in the online version will speed up your study.
- Right here. What could be easier? Links should work here too.
Doctrine and Covenants 76–Official Declaration 2
Doctrinal mastery questions: Understand the doctrine taught in the doctrinal mastery passages.
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Context questions: Understand some of the major events or accounts that surround and give background to a particular passage.
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The messengers who restored certain priesthood keys to the Prophet Joseph Smith and Oliver Cowdery in the Kirtland Temple (see D&C 110:11–16)
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Principles the Prophet Joseph Smith learned about trials while in Liberty Jail (see D&C 122:7)
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The major gathering places of the early Saints (see D&C 124, section heading; D&C 136, section heading, 1–18)
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The establishment of the Relief Society (see Daughters in My Kingdom: The History and Work of Relief Society [2011], 11–25)
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The coming forth of the Pearl of Great Price (see the introduction to the Pearl of Great Price)
Doctrine and principles: Understand major doctrine and principles taught in the Doctrine and Covenants.
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The oath and covenant of the priesthood (see D&C 84:33–44), resurrection and kingdoms of glory (see D&C 88:14–24), the Word of Wisdom (see D&C 89), watchmen on the tower (see D&C 101:43–62), Church disciplinary councils (see D&C 102; True to the Faith: A Gospel Reference [2004], 37–38), when the practice of plural marriage is justified (see D&C 132:45, 48), and tithing (see D&C 119)
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Temple work (see D&C 109; 110), performing ordinances for our ancestors (see D&C 128:15), and preaching the gospel in the spirit world (see D&C 138:29–32)
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Receiving a kingdom of glory and receiving exaltation in the celestial kingdom (see D&C 76:30–70; 131:1–4; 137:10)
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Truths taught in “The Family: A Proclamation to the World” (see “The Family: A Proclamation to the World,”Ensign or Liahona, May 2017, 145)
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WRITING QUESTION: The role of the Prophet Joseph Smith in restoring truth, ordinances, and the priesthood (see D&C 135:3)
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Revelation announced in Official Declaration 2
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Succession in the First Presidency when a prophet dies (see D&C 107:23–24)
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The new and everlasting covenant of marriage (see D&C 132:19–21)
Key terms: Understand the meaning of key terms.
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The highlighted and bolded prompt above will help you prepare for the written portion of the test. Study and prepare to write about:
- Any truth restored to the earth through the Prophet Joseph Smith and how that truth can help you receive eternal life.
- Any ordinance that was restored through the Prophet Joseph Smith and how that ordinance can help you receive eternal life.
- Any example of priesthood authority that was restored through the Prophet Joseph Smith and how it can help you receive eternal life.
- Your personal thoughts on the importance of the Prophet Joseph Smith
Remember, the whole purpose of the learning assessment is to help you remember how much we have learned together and to ponder how these truths can bless you and your family. Please continue the learning process by discussing what you have learned with your parents.
- The messengers who restored certain priesthood keys to the Prophet Joseph Smith and Oliver Cowdery in the Kirtland Temple (see D&C 110:11–16)
- Principles the Prophet Joseph Smith learned about trials while in Liberty Jail (see D&C 122:7)
- The major gathering places of the early Saints (see D&C 124, section heading; D&C 136, section heading, 1–18)
- The establishment of the Relief Society (see Daughters in My Kingdom: The History and Work of Relief Society [2011], 11–25)
- The coming forth of the Pearl of Great Price (see the introduction to the Pearl of Great Price)
- The oath and covenant of the priesthood (see D&C 84:33–44), resurrection and kingdoms of glory (see D&C 88:14–24), the Word of Wisdom (see D&C 89), watchmen on the tower (see D&C 101:43–62), Church disciplinary councils (see D&C 102; True to the Faith: A Gospel Reference [2004], 37–38), when the practice of plural marriage is justified (see D&C 132:45, 48), and tithing (see D&C 119)
- Temple work (see D&C 109; 110), performing ordinances for our ancestors (see D&C 128:15), and preaching the gospel in the spirit world (see D&C 138:29–32)
- Receiving a kingdom of glory and receiving exaltation in the celestial kingdom (see D&C 76:30–70; 131:1–4; 137:10)
- Truths taught in “The Family: A Proclamation to the World” (see “The Family: A Proclamation to the World,”Ensign or Liahona, May 2017, 145)
- WRITING QUESTION: The role of the Prophet Joseph Smith in restoring truth, ordinances, and the priesthood (see D&C 135:3)
- Revelation announced in Official Declaration 2
- Succession in the First Presidency when a prophet dies (see D&C 107:23–24)
- The new and everlasting covenant of marriage (see D&C 132:19–21)
- Any truth restored to the earth through the Prophet Joseph Smith and how that truth can help you receive eternal life.
- Any ordinance that was restored through the Prophet Joseph Smith and how that ordinance can help you receive eternal life.
- Any example of priesthood authority that was restored through the Prophet Joseph Smith and how it can help you receive eternal life.
- Your personal thoughts on the importance of the Prophet Joseph Smith